Basic questions about MOSFETS (what do those terms mean?)

I usually don't worry much about it either; I usually don't use a resistor when tinkering. If I'm soldering, then that's different. I have used a gate driver in exactly one project to "toggle" an IGBT, which I've also only used once. Poor little PIC couldn't begin to turn it on in a reasonable time. It'd get hot really easy. The gate driver sure fixed that.