Thanks again! I did what you suggested and now I get a "not in sync" error. Even though it's not working I'm encouraged. I'll probably try another chip out and see how it goes. The bootloader part seemed to work because the ATiny shows up on the bottom portion of the IDE on the proper port. I hope I have it wired correctly. I'm going by the tutorials which all seem show the same wiring.
One thing I did notice is that the sketch that I'm trying to write to the tiny (Blink, pin 3) seems to write to the Arduino.