Its fine if it doesnt work with 12F683 but i really appreciate your efforts --> 
Ya it still doesn't work , i'm utilizing the program as follows
- Reset the arduino (offcourse after the sketch is loaded on arduino)
- Then start the Windows programme that you made.
- change the Port to the one which im connecting the arduino with.
- Then i change the name of the PIC to 12F683
then click on read, but nothing works the windows opens at some try's but it all shows 0000000000 , first i thought it may be happening bcz the PIC may be locked on its bits to protect the software , then i used another 12F683 that i bought afresh and after writing to it many times, whenver i read and if it worked sometimes then it shows all 000000000 in bits