The TX and RX are indeed incorrectly labeled. I've grown accustomed to it though XD
I literally can pull this off the breadboard and program a Pro Mini. What is the chances the seller has sent me two duff 328p and a duff 328p-pu, Very slim?!
I know the USB-Serial works
The components have all been replaced
The reset function appears to work
I have tried different parts of my breadboard in case
Thanks for the feedback, I am at the point of giving up on breadboard arduino 
As a side note I installed XP Home in Virtual Box for giggles and the driver settings are the same for this device as in WIndows 7