please add a jumper to disable auto reset

Why not just re-instate that trace?

Trust that the trace always exists or the auto-reset would not function. There just may not be an easy to see/roomy enough area to show where to cut. However once the trace is located it can either be cut or the series capacitor can be removed. I think the low ohm resistor temporarily inserted into the shield +5vdc and reset pins is the simplest way to go.

Lefty