loading sketches via Bluesmirf??

I want to remove my FT232R USB programmer from my board and wondered if I can use my bluetooth module to program it instead. Is it possible? The only thing I can see that would be a problem is there isnt a DTR connection on it.... Is there some other way around this? With the FT232R you need a .1uF cap between the DTR and the 1st Arduino pin (RESET, PC6).... but how to do this with a Bluesmirf, I wonder.......

any ideas?