CrossRoads:
What I have definitely worked, one upload of the bootloader, and then about 30 sketch uploads as I checked out all the IO pins.
Hopefully there wasn't some other change I made that I've totally forgotten about O)
Thanks CrossRoads.. I'll try it out when I get home tonight!
@Florinc: I got a feeling that it could be the crystal.. I couldn't try any other one because that was the last one I had.. I'll go buy bunch later today! Thank you for the tip!!!