Stealing data sent to an LCD

so I assume pin 7 - 14 are used as serial outputs to the LCD correct?

Think not, I think it is parallel 7-14 = 8 datalines = 1 byte in parallel.

You could try to read them with a 74HC165 shiftin - http://www.arduino.cc/en/Tutorial/ShiftIn - and - http://arduino.cc/en/Reference/ShiftIn -