- You have to follow the matrix setup. How you arrange the LEDs on the ends of wires after making the matrix connection is up to you.
- There are lots of LED strips that you can send commands down the line to. "Close together" is your call.
- MAX7221 takes care of driving the LEDs, you only supply 5V to it. You are only writing data into a register that represents the 8 LEDs. There are some equations in the data sheet that tell you how much power the MAX7221 will drawing.
You are going into it too much.Select Iset resistor for a lower current per LED, if not bright enough with intensity set at Full, then raise it up some.