Well I Created a header with a 100 and 10 ohm in series to bridge 5v to reset, but it appears that the Mega is still resetting.
any other Ideas?
GOT IT
Edit the plugins\ols.profile-agla.cfg File
line42: device.open.portdelay = 1000
The default was 500ms Delay increasing to 1second (1000ms) works fine without the 110ohm resister.