Hi,
The 38 at the end of the part number tells you the frequency that the receiver expects, so in this case its 38Khz.
You can use code to generate the 38Khz, but the 555 timer is such a fundamental chip to so many projects that you might as well figure out how to use one, it will also allow you to drive your IR Transmitter with much more power than an Arduino PIN, this will increase your range and reliability.
Something quick to try is to build a 38Khz circuit with the 555 Timer, then use your Arduino to drive a servo signal which will enable/disable the 555 timer using the reset pin. On the receiver side, you 'might' be able to drive a servo with just a 5v power supply and the IR Receiver.
If you want to get away from the requirement for a 38Khz signal, you can try an infra red detector instead of a receiver, but its so easy to generate the 38Khz signal with a timer (Arduino or 555) and it makes for a much more reliable system.
Here is a quick update on one of my own projects where I am using an infrared detector the same as yours to detect my RC Car lapping. The RC Car has a simple 555 timer circuit (no arduino) outputting a 1 millisecond pulse of 38Khz IR signal.
One limitation of this is that if I want to use the system in bright sunlight I need to enclose the detector in a shade, this is no problem for me as I need the detection zone to be very tight anyway but If you plan on using your control system outside, IR might not be practical for you. If you decide not to go this way, build a 555 punk console, I have been dying to but haven't found the time.
If do you want to take the IR route, I would suggest that you do so in stages, and as a first stage I would suggest that you build the battery driven detector circuit from the Lady Ada link and build a 555 IR circuit. If you can activate the LED in the detector circuit with your 555 circuit, the next step would be to connect the 555 to the Arduino, let us know when you are ready to do that, you will need to add some decoupling capacitors first but we can get into that when we need to. After the decoupling capacitors it should all be simple enough.
EDIT: I have a nagging idea that its would possible to build the entire transmitter and receiver from a few timers, I have never tried it, but logically I can see how it could work.
Duane B
rcarduino.blogspot.com