..with the new code it resets the time and i cant find a way to set the rtc time so when i disconect the power the rtc stores the time.
Adam, can you clarify the problem you are having.
Is it that you can't set the time on the rtc (using the TimeRTCSet.pde sketch in the download)?
Or that once the time is set it does not display correctly when you disconnect and reconnect power with the RTC board connected to the Arduino board? If the latter, check that the battery in the RTC board is ok.