Reverse polarity

You are welcome. Just figure out two signal lines of inputs to those bridges, "cut-in" with arduino and you would be able to take full control of the car.
Some thoughts:

  • turn on/off leds representing right/left turning signals;
  • -//- front/rear lights;
  • "beep" horn;
  • add voice module, which would play "yes, sir!" or "no, sir" whenever radio receiver outputs some signals.