[SOLVED] Set Low Fuse Bit, Now Can't Program over ISP

If you haven't got 100 ohms, try with 1K or whatever value >100 ohms you do have - it might work.

[EDIT: the datasheet for that resonator very helpfully gives the impedance at various frequencies. Based on that, at a clock frequency of 1MHz, even a 10K resistor may not be too high a value for it to work.]