secretreeve:
also, i need to get this started and off the ground. i dont have time to sit there and learn the language then go into programming this. I essentially need to learn the language as I write up the program which is why I have asked for help and not asked people to tell me to learn the language first.
Ok, so pick a starter kit and get it ordered. You can probably use 90% of the kit in your model so it'll be cheaper than buying separate parts.
Next google "TLC5940" and start reading. Each one can control 16 leds from an Arduino with PWM. Go on eBay and order a dozen of those and a bag of mixed color LEDs. When it arrives and you have it working you can get some suitable size "prototype board", etc. to build the final gadget.