lookslikeruck:
i followed this tutorial:
http://revoltlab.com/projects/perfduino/
Try to follow this tutorial:
http://pdp11.byethost12.com/AVR/ArduinoAsProgrammer.htm
It allows you to program any target AVR directely with any code you want, ex. "blink a led".
You do not really need to write a bootloader on the chip, first.