Autoreset Circuit on Uno

Awesome! Thanks for the info. Is there any pin that goes high/low to indicate that avrdude and the arduino finished programming and everything is good (besides the sketch running)? I'd like to use that to enable a bluetooth modem which sits on the uart. If it's enabled during programming then it screws with avrdude (presumably because it's driving the tx line at the same time that avrdude is trying to drive the same line.). Thanks!