Arduino Uno + Bluetooth Connectivity Issue

did you see blue bluetooth icon next to clock?
I do have the bluetooth icon in the system tray and when I click it, I see my ardiuno/bluetooth module connected - it's named "itead". I have removed it and rediscovered it to mimic what you do in your video, but this issue still exists for me. In the above thread entries, where I reference

What status led do on bt shield, did you get it stop blinking?
This is another area of uncertainty for me with respect to my particular bluetooth shield. Per it's datasheet:

"When power on and disconnect the port, states LED blinks 1time/2s ;
when the module connect and open the serial port, states LED blinks
2times/s."

I have gotten to the mode where it blinks twice per second. But that doesn't appear to be the same a being paired.

The datasheet also seems to imply the default setting is "slave mode" with the following:
"Default state:
Slave mode, pin code :1234, device name: H-C-2010-06-01 ,Baud
38400bits/s."

But I would like to confirm that by connecting with a terminal program - which I have been unsuccessful in to doing so far.