Regression between uno and uno R2 VALIDATED. HARDWARE PROBLEM CONFIRMED

This is pretty far from how the other open communities react.

Not really. Difficult bugs take time to address. All hardware bugs are difficult.
For example, this arduino-related gcc issue took 7 months for the compiler gurus to say that they weren't going to fix it.:
http://gcc.gnu.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=38342
(and gcc is a pretty shining example of open-source-software. There's a LOT of stuff out there written by students, released on a lark, and essentially abandoned when they graduated and got a real job. Shucks, "winavr", the packaging of gcc and related tools for AVR development on windows, was nearly abandoned.)