I tried re-loading it a couple of times without success but the file posted by wanderson (Thanks) seems to work and gives A BUNCH of confusing options! I went through the tutorial in the first link using "Arduino as ISP" chosen from the tools-programmer menu. It is communicating with the board but I get an "out of synch" error.
Oh well, I consider it some kind of progress. There must be something I'm overlooking. I have no idea what chip to pick from the menu. Mine are just ATTINY85 20PU.
I am excited about pulling this off and making gadgets that work sans Arduino!
Thanks again for the help!