uLCD-144 4D problem with Duemilanove

a.periz:
That's how I connect the display:

Display Arduino
5 (RES) RESET
6 (GND) GND
7 (RX) TX
8 (TX) RX
9 (VIN) +5

Thank you

What pin numbers actually, in both cards, mega and duemilanove?

Kari