Minimum pins for GLCD display

1284P is the 3rd entry below 1280. How'd you miss it?

Yes, set up pwr/gnd/reset and mosi/miso/sck for programming.
May need 16 MHz xtal and two 22pf caps as well; same as how you'd set up a 328 basically.

Skyjumper has a bunch of recent posts on this as well.