I agree, keep the lib small
the read functions could be conditional with a "simple" #define construct.
something like this is all you need (
// uncomment next line to support LCD read function
//#define SUPPORT_LCD_READ
...
#ifdef SUPPORT_LCD_READ
uint8_t readChar()
{
uint8_t ch;
digitalWrite(RWpin, HIGH);
...
digitalWrite(RWpin, LOW); // set back to write mode
return ch;
}
#endif