[SOLVED] Not in SYnc Message every-time I run a basic example sketch

I can see why I did not have this working correctly. Is there a schematic or drawing on how to set up a manual switch? Resistor between one side of the manual reset switch button pin and Vcc correct? But inline with the reset pin of the Arduino Chip?

Cap in line with the reset pin #1 of Atmel328 and the other between the manual reset switch button pin and where would the other pin go on the cap?

I know I should know this but this is a non polarized cap so it should not cause an issue inline but will probably not work that way since one side needs a negative or connected to the other side of the momentary switch?