MOSFET driver external circuit

However I am afraid that if I dont put any gate resistor, this thing would blow up too. Share your thoughts.

If you do put in such a large gate resistor, it will blow up. What a gate resistor does here is to slow down the charge / discharge of the mosfet, in essence, causing it to dissipate more (higher switching losses).

Very rarely you see gate resistors in switching applications. When you see them, they are typically very small (11ohm or less), and for special purposes.