Hola Claudio soy Dany y hablo español tambien. Pero para que nuestros amigos programadores del mundo lo aprecien bien seguire en ingles! I have the same problem using an Arduino Pro Mini too. I followed your steps and the Blink sketch ran and worked well.
I connected the pins like you did it.
Before I load my sketch I press RESET button in the Arduino Pro Mini.
Next I hit Load sketch and
When this line appears: "Binary sketch size:" I release the RESET button and that's it.
It was the solution for me too. But my question is:
Do we need to perform 4th step above and I quote:
4.Press RESET of the Arduino Clone an then press upload sketch and release the reset when show the message "Size of sketch.." or "Tamaño del binario" in my case (spanish version).
every time we want to load a different sketch?? Is there another solution for this issue??
What do you think folks??