Thats funny.
This was my fifth or 6th project. I got this inexpensive display off of ebay as I mentioned before. I hooked it up four or five ways and read every bit of information I could find was interesting at the time. I finally sat down, went pin by pin, connection by connection, line by line from the datasheet (As I should have from the beginning).
It has been on my board for several months playing with it.
You mentioned frame buffers in a previous thread, can you elaborate on that a little more or is there some documentation on how to take advantage of it released yet?