Ok,
I fixed the powering problem (5v & gnd pins) - no more spookie leds..
and made the jumpers, just like in the picture. Then tried to upload the : open/examples/digital/blink
and again, got the same message :
Binary sketch size: 860 bytes (of a 7168 byte maximum)
avrdude: AVR device not responding
avrdude: initialization failed, rc=-1
avrdude: Yikes! Invalid device signature.
avrdude: Expected signature for ATMEGA8 is 1E 93 07
avrdude: AVR device not responding
avrdude: verification error, first mismatch at byte 0x0000
0x38 != 0xff
avrdude: verification error; content mismatch
sorry fore the bad grammar, english is not my natyve 
and thank's (-;