Stepper motor connections.... plz help

Most of that you'll have to hammer out yourself. Take ownership.
This sketch should start you down the "Road of Discovery".
The motor runs slowly for 4 seconds or so, takes a break, runs quickly for 4 seconds, takes a another break, and starts the process over again.

/*
    easy driver 
    demo sketch
    Step pin connects to
    Arduino pin D2
*/    
    
byte step_pin = 2;  // pin alias

void setup()
{
  pinMode (step_pin, OUTPUT);
}

void loop ()
{  
   // speed 1
   for (int spin = 0; spin < 40; spin ++)
   {
     digitalWrite(step_pin, HIGH);
     delay (2);   // try different values
     digitalWrite(step_pin, LOW);
     delay (100);   // try different values
   }
   delay (1000);   // pause 1 sec
   
   // speed 2
   for (int spin = 0; spin < 80; spin ++)
   {
     digitalWrite(step_pin, HIGH);
     delay (2);   // try different values
     digitalWrite(step_pin, LOW);
     delay (50);   // try different values
   }
   delay (1000);   // pause 1 sec
}

changed values of "spin"