Thank you very much, you are really kind! it would take ages for me to draw all the connections...I do quite well for a beginner in the schematic editor, but in the board editor I get into trouble

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Well I'd like it to be single sided (I think I've already mentioned that

) and with a dip package atmega and other parts also normal size (let say 3mm leds) not smd size ..
And I'd like the optional parts also (I'm not sure about that pwr led, it just indicates the arduino is being powered right?) and do I need the reset switch, if I have autoreset? I'd like the layout for the programming pins to be as similar as they can be with the modified programmer we are talking about
http://www.ebay.com/itm/USB-2-0-UART-TTL-6PIN-Module-Serial-Converter-CP2102-/370532286388?pt=PCC_Drives_Storage_Internal&hash=item564571ffb4#ht_2817wt_1110 ...
I guess I want a female connector if cp2102 has male pins.
I don't need ICSP.
Thats about it I guess

Also maybe I'd like a led on D13 so I can diagnose if the arduino is properly working with blink sketch (or which pin is it, I know I have a led that blinks on my nano if I upload the sketch on it, its permanently on the board).
Oh another thing, I'd like it to be drawn in Eagle

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I have another question about the bootloader,..I shouldn't buy atmega with optiboot (or uno bootloader) right, but instead with duemilanove bootloader right?