Reset vector. That's the only way for the bootloader to get control. Try swapping the images so the bootloader is after your application in the combined file. If that doesn't help, you may want to explain what "causing a conflict" means.
No, check out this app note:
http://www.atmel.com/Images/doc1644.pdfBasically, the boot loader goes into the high space, and when you set the boot vector fuse (I forget what its called off the top of my head) it causes the uC to start at the beginning of where the boot loader is written. Then the boot loader transfers control to address 0 to start the app.
It turns out these two bytes of data are the version number, which westfw told me should be somewhere else, based on the linker command. So I'll investigate why it ended up where it is. I expect its safe for me to just delete that data record from the hex file before I combine it with my app, ans I'll test it to be sure.