Home brew board. There are a few small mistakes in the silk screen and a small Vcc mistake but use it just for pin to pin reference.
Sorry for the very dark picture... This is just a over all shot.
Home-brew MCU pins (rainbow cable is connected pin to pin so purple should be pin10 on both ends)
Connection at the shield.
Connection at the ISP header. NOTE!!! that the wire on the left is actually connected to the upper center pin! Also note, that the red wire on the 3x1 connector is 5v, white is 3v3 and black is gnd. The random white wire soldered to the board goes to the MCU reset.
Let me know if there is anything else I need to post.