I need a program thai I just install and play.
Arduino is not a solution that you can just take off the shelf and use - it's a tool that you can use to design and create your own solution. You don't need to be an experienced programmer to get started, but you need to be willing to learn. The sort of behaviour you're describing should be relatively simple from the Arduino's point of view and I expect the hardest part would be choosing and mounting all the switches and labels and so on. But it will need some programming, and you'll need to learn how to do it.
If this is not something that interests you then you could ask in the Gigs and Collaborations section whether anyone will do it for you, but in that case you should be prepared to pay them for their work.