you're not blowing them, they work still no doubt, collect D3 of Arduino to the Base Pin (middle/2 pin), Emitter to GND, Collector to your LED's GND (short lead) and the Anode + side goes straight to your 5v rail.
Pin 1 is the base. Did you try the test?
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