I hooked the board as in the picture I posted in post 2 I used the sketch that comes with the arduino ide ver 1.0.3 windows 7
It's just sat there and then it would pop up a error that I posted changed to my old laptop which has ver1.0.2 of the ide and windows XP and it happly burned all 3 chips .
// ArduinoISP version 04m3
// Copyright (c) 2008-2011 Randall Bohn
// If you require a license, see
// http://www.opensource.org/licenses/bsd-license.php
//
// This sketch turns the Arduino into a AVRISP
// using the following arduino pins:
//
// pin name: not-mega: mega(1280 and 2560)
// slave reset: 10: 53
// MOSI: 11: 51
// MISO: 12: 50
// SCK: 13: 52