i read them both, the second one makes its very clear why a relay is the solution for my "project".
my conclusions are that I will buy the following, please advice if soemthing I'll probably need is missing:
1. SSR - 40A: http://www.ebay.com/itm/Solid-State-Relay-SSR-40DA-40A-250V-W-I-O-3-32VDC-24-380VAC-Heat-Sink-/200879972574?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_0&hash=item2ec56120de
2. Arduino kit:
Im actually not sure, (a) seems pretty short with items, (b) is not original arduino i think, but have the battery which is a good thing, and also screen and other things, [c] seems the best option, isnt it? but a tiny breadboard, maybe i should consider something else?
I still dont know about wifi card. Its hard to nevigate in ebay beacuse arduino has alot of "compatible" products,
i wish for an original one, with much documentation, so that i will not get lost in the middle and waste money for nothing.
Any suggestions what to look for exactly?
I would go to arduino official website but i need delivery for israel, which is always problematic.