Thanks for all the people that have helped (mainly John) on this project and those that have been less than, why bother posting a reply.
It's hard to know what will help a person. Sometimes a hint or a gentle nudge or a bit of encouragement is all that a poster needs. Sometimes the poster needs to have there hand held for a while.
If you try holding someone's hand when all they need is a hint, they don't like it. If all you give is a hint to someone that needs there hand held for a while, they don't like it.
You need to remember that the pay here isn't all that great. We're all volunteers. Sometimes that works; sometimes it doesn't.
If the project is important to you, and is beyond your skill set, you have two choices. Expand your skill set (learn!) or head over to Gigs and Collaboration, and offer to pay for the help you need.
Whining about people that try to help is not the correct answer.