Thanks sanni! I think my problem was the sop8 to dip8 adapter I used was too big and soldering extensions on to the chip was not the answer. I ordered a smaller adapter which is arriving tonight. Weird thing is my laptop isn't giving me the Ports option in the device manager.
On download page of WxPic was written that you MUST use PC not laptop. I tried my Dell Latitude 630 (with embedded COM not USB2COM one)and WxPic was able to recognize the ports but ROM flashing was out of luck.Then I tried PC and ROM was successfully written. It's apparently voltage issue.So, You'd better to use PC instead of laptop.