well if we are talking about SSRs for higher currents and AC they are relatively large but there are smaller ones too
http://sklep.avt.pl/photo/_pdf/JGX40F.pdf(I've seen smaller than this one)
It would be great if I could find an IC that can handle a little bit higher current than this one, maybe 0.5A max
http://sklep.avt.pl/photo/_pdf/LAA110.pdfOhh and yeah I am aware that smaller ICs won't be able to dissipate heat if under max load. I know that 50V @ 0.5A = 25W, multiply that by the number of outputs and you can use it for heating

But if it can handle, let say 4-5 times as much as arduino and isolates the two circuits then it seems worth it