- Buy an AVR programmer (quite cheap these days).
- Learn how to program using the command line with AVRdude, or if you buy a programmer that is compatible with AVRStudio, use AVRStudio.
- Learn what the fuses are for the tiny2313.
- Wire the board with a power supply and a crystal (if you plan to use one)
- Connect the programmer. (You can mess up badly on this...)
- Check if the programmer communicates with the chip.
- Set the fuses.
- write a program in Arduino and compile.
- get the .hex file for that program and download it with the programmer.
- Test and report.
I'm quite sure you can find enough resources around the web about how to perform each of these steps. and I guess more people will complete the info and fill you in on what you can't find.