Can your IR sensor be setup to output a low level signal when something is close? If, use that to create an external interrupt on D2 or D3 (on Uno for example) to wake up from power down sleep mode.
...Is that the idea?
If you don't want the arduino to create the 36KHz, then you will need another source for pulses, perhaps a 556 dual timer...
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