Mega 2560 R3 + Shield Ethernet R3 = problem upload sketchs (SOLVED)

Okay I'm joining the club of unresponsive Mega 2560 R3 and the Ethernetshield R3

But I now have 2 sets that both won't respond after I uploaded a new sketch threw USB.

Now I can only monitor the serial info on the boards tx rx pins ( 1 and 0)

How on earth is this possible?

Are you having any luck with the new bootloader?

Thx

Herman