Most (all?) IDEs have some form of match ({[ function. Normally just place the cursor on one and it highlights the matching one. Sometimes you ^B (for example) to move the cursor to its match.
However it's done it's a very useful feature.
EDIT: We all have a preferred method when it comes to {}, it's not the job of an IDE to enforce that, or even help probably. If you use TABs properly the indentation is easy to follow. An editor that handles block in/outdenting makes life a lot easier in this regard.
Rob