6v6gt:
OK. I see what you are doing. Here is a raw screen which could work for you (subject to getting libraries for the lcd and touch part and designing board)
I just did a search on aliexpress for "lcd touch screen capacitive" . At least there appears to be some information with it.
Thank you 6b6gt for taking a look around. I've done a lot of research myself. This is wrong proportions and it's still landscape 
Best LCDs I found are the portrait 3.97" (4") and maybe 5" (I haven't looked too deep into 5")
arduarn:
Maybe it's just me being odd, but it seems strange to use a lovely big LCD and then slap a dirty great cover over half the pixels. Why not just draw the frame on the screen in software and save a manufacturing step. Drawing it would also allow future modifications/tweaks/updates etc.
Good point. We already have an app, so there is a full screen there. What I am aiming with this remote is going towards the future (touch + haptic), but still retain a little of that oldschool feel, with "buttons" and screen.
I see it's a new trend in the automotive industry. Screen button + haptic
Koenigsegg Jesko steering wheel buttons
https://apex-one-assets.imgix.net/store/3b7112234e2929913112d3f7d1d5439ea3b5581790e3aba575ef6d6e35d3?ixlib=rails-2.1.3&w=1200
Mercedes-Benz AMG GT 4-doors console buttons
https://www.mercedes-benz.co.uk/passengercars/mercedes-benz-cars/models/amg-gt/amg-gt-4-door-coupe/explore/interior/_jcr_content/highlightcontainer/image.MQ6.0.20180719112957.jpeg
Hope it makes sense