Help!

I built a parallel programmer and have had nothing but trouble. I have three 168's that I can't get the bootloader on. With all my fumbling around I believe my fuses are screwed up. If I paid for all shipping would someone be able to load the decimila bootloader on the three 168's and send them back to me? Send me a message if you can help. Thanks.
btw I live in Montana if that makes any difference.