Graphics library for NodeMCU (ESP8266), ESP32 and serial+parallel TFT displays

I have a 3.5" 8-bit ILI9488 touch screen that I am trying to use with an ESP32.

It states its an SPI device and has MISO, MOSI, CS, and pins, but not DC.

Here are the pins it has:

T_CS
CLK
PEN
F_CS
MISO
MOSI
GND (x3)
5V
VDD (x2)
BL
DB0-DB14
RST
WR
RD
CS
RS

There is an onboard SD card slot as well.

My first question is which pins are for the TFT so that I can ignore the SD and touch portions.

Second question is can I make this work without a DC pin, or is one of the pins an alternative for DC?

Thanks!