My reverse geocache with nixie tubes

Hi Rick. Could you please snap a picture of the correct wiring for the relay? I have a complete reverse geocache with everything fine and dandy except the switch mechanism. I've been fiddling around on the breadboard for hours and can't seem to make the arduino power itself down. The schematic you posted is helpful but I still find myself confused in the actual implementation. Thank you very much for all the info on your awesome project!

Will