yes.
I got mine to work..
(but mine was a bit differnt.. remember?)
I was doing a 'minimal' breadboard (+3.3v @ 8MHz internal clock) as my target board...
I just trying to disable the auto-reset on your MAIN board.. (the good nano)
I think its a 100-120 Ohm resistor from rest to +5v rail.. this will disable the GOOD nano from resetting on boot-up or opening up the serial monitor/comm...etc
follow same directions above.. and add that new step to the good nano.. see if it works.