For crimping tools, the Hanlong
HT-202B and/or HT-213 might be suitable too and are considerably cheaper. I have ordered a HT-202B and will see how it goes. On
http://www.farnell.com/datasheets/323337.pdf there is an overview of these tools.
Update: I have tested the Hanlong HT-202B and it does NOT work. I will probably try the
HT-225D next.
For connectors and housings, a search on eBay for "dupont terminal" usually gives good results for both male and female connectors, "dupont housing" gets you matching housings (they can house both male and female connectors).