DS1302 refers to this Application Note:
Application Note 58: Crystal Considerations for Dallas Real-Time Clocks
found here:
http://www.maximintegrated.com/app-notes/index.mvp/id/58Table 2 & 3 list crystal suppliers - the vast majority are 12.5pF.
Only 1 is listed with CL of 6pF.
"Fast Clocks
The following are the most common scenarios that cause a crystal-based RTC to run fast.
Noise coupling into the crystal from adjacent signals. This problem has been extensively covered above. Noise coupling usually causes an RTC to be grossly inaccurate.
Wrong crystal. An RTC typically runs fast if a crystal with a specified load capacitance (CL) greater than the RTC-specified load capacitance is used. The severity of the inaccuracy is dependent on the value of the CL. For example, using a crystal with a CL of 12pF on an RTC designed with a 6pF CL causes the RTC to be about 3 to 4 minutes per month fast."
Can you live with 3-4 minutes fast/month?